Bloggy Wars, The F-Word, Age and God!

Where to begin this post?  Did you look at the title?  Let’s take another look, shall we?

BLOGGY WARS, THE F-WORD, AGE AND GOD!  Yep, this is all wrapped up in my mind together.  I am going to STATE UP FRONT that I will not be linking the BLOGS involved in the SO-CALLED bloggy war.  I know for a fact that the Bloggers’ being accused of this WAR never felt it was A WAR and it was blown out of proportion by followers!

Now, STAY WITH ME!!!  For those not involved and are going, WHAT THE FUCK??? Or WHAT THE HELL??? Whichever you prefer, hang in there you will understand!

Blogger #1, a teenager, asked Blogger#2, a woman in her 20′s, to participate in ” A blog party of  gathering followers.”  

BLOGGER #2 Hates these kinds of Parties, posts and such.  She is very clear about this on her blog, super clear.  So clear that she has make fun of it Follow on Friday’s and let’s just say you have to be willing to play by ALL HER RULES in order to participate on her FRIDAY FOLLOW or else.  Blogger #2′s point is SHE WANTS ONLY TRUE BLUE followers.  Period.   People who are truly reading her blog because they LIKE IT and they come back regularly.  Not, I dropped in on Friday, I am following, please follow back and then who the FUCK (which is exactly what she would say) sees them again.

Blogger #1 was on a mission.  She wanted to BUILD HER BLOG.  Period.   She was having a party.   She wanted followers.  PERIOD.  Matter of fact that was her ultimate goal.  So, she asked Blogger #2 to participate and Blogger #2 said yes but there was a hitch, Blogger#2 said, ” you need to participate in my FRIDAY FOLLOW” AND this is when all the problems started.   Needless to say, Blogger #1 could never, ever have  participated in Blogger #2′s Friday Follow and she should have said so up front but instead she wrote a post about WHY SHE WASN’T keeping her end of the deal and I found that post to be a bit condescending and wimpy all in one.  If that makes sense??

Blogger #1 is 18!!! An adult!!!  She states she is not like every other teenager but really SHE IS!   She has not been blogging long and ALL SHE WANTED was to get a bunch of followers.  Your typical teenager.  Popularity contest.  See how many people you can get to follow you on Facebook, Twitter and now she wanted a big blog following.  Blogger #2 has a nice following and she knew if she got her on board that would help her, no ifs ands or buts THEN in all good conscious Blogger #1 could not hold up her end of the deal.   So, she did what typical 18 year olds doSHE…….

WROTE a heartfelt post blaming Blogger #2 for pressuring her into being something she is not, even daring her! Therefore, when Blogger#1 looked into her soul she had to be the person she is and not act like a normal teenager and that is why Blogger #1 backed out of the deal.

WELL, I believe she just behaved LIKE A NORMAL TEENAGER.  In the end she got what she wanted.  Blogger #2 participated and wrote a post about the Bloggy party which I am sure led  traffic to Blogger#1‘s blog, BINGO!!  Then, after she wrote the heartfelt post making Blogger #2 look like an EVIL BITCH that uses foul language and Blogger#1 just couldn’t BECAUSE SHE IS GODLY.  Okay, that did me in!!!

Listen, Blogger #2 never asked her to use God’s name in vain or do anything against her religion.

I am CATHOLIC but I am over some of these GODLY people who think that because they don’t CUSS, you know, don’t say FUCK, or SHIT, or DAMN they are ALL THIS and better than the rest of us SINNERS out here trudging along in GOD’S world!

Actually, some of them are pretty crappy and maybe if they cussed they might feel a little better.  BECAUSE, this condescending attitude that they are in touch with GOD and they know what HE wants and cussing is not what HE wants well is a bunch of shit!!!

Here is the deal!  I don’t think God is worried about LANGUAGE!

I was taught this is what he wants!

TO LOVE HIM WITH ALL YOUR HEART, MIND AND SOUL AND TO LOVE YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF.  See, it was simplified for us.  Really, simplified!!!

When we get all caught up in silly things like, if it is the end of the world if someone says, fuck or shit or damn it is really SAD.  I think God shakes his head and says, “Wow, maybe they should get off their computers and go HELP in THE WORLD instead of worrying about the USE of  PATHETIC LANGUAGE.

Stop the judging!!!

Look at a person’s actions and heart, don’t get caught up on silly RULES!

Anyways back to the silly Bloggy War!

Blogger #1 can’t play it both ways.  Oh, I am way beyond my years except when I want to get a bunch of followers then I acted like a teenager and but then I went back on my word because I was TRUE TO MY SOUL. In the end Blogger #2 kept her word AND let Blogger #1 off the hook. Blogger #2 wrote a post stating that Blogger #1 did not have to keep her word!  That she did not want her to do anything against her will or beliefs!

Blogger#1 did not need to write a post putting Blogger #2 down and then Blogger#1′s followers began attacking Blogger #2.  and Blogger #2′s followers, what a HOT MESS!! All over following BLOGS!!   HOW FUCKING SILLY.

But, I am over the please excuse me I am young BUT APPLAUD ME because I am THE GODLY BETTER PERSON and followed my soul.  No, you used another person, made a deal and backed out of the deal and then people PRAISED YOU FOR IT BECAUSE YOU MADE HER LOOK LIKE THE PEER PRESSURE PERSON, NOT EXACTLY TRUE OR FAIR!

Blogger#1 knew who Blogger #2 was and she never had made the deal. Period and then use her age and religjon to get out of it.

BLOGGER #2, she never WAVERED from who she is, she never excused who she is and she never brought religion into it.  She never asked Blogger #1, the young lady, to take GOD’s name in vain.  If  Blogger#1 was smart she could have had some fun with the post and turned it around.

The F-word is just a word.  We have made it what it is.   Blogger #1 could have ran with that.  Use a little IMAGINATION!!!

Anyways…..

Do you ever get sick of the “Oh, I am young”  excuse?

Do you ever feel that GODLY people can be condescending??

How silly is it to get into a BLOGGY WAR over the F-Word?

Tagged as: Blog Followers, Bloggy Wars, Building a Blog, F-Word, Fuck, God, Growing a Blog, Religion, Teenagers, The Golden Rule, The Greatest Commandment