I Just had to Share! This popped up on my Newsfeeed on Facebook. It cracked me up!
The age old Forgiveness Problem! You either just have to do it and move on or hold onto the hate,grudge,hurt,perceived injury and so on. If you choose to not accept “I am sorry” or understand people are not perfect, they make mistakes then don’t expect the same consideration. That is being a hypocrite. I love all they sayings, “Walk a mile”, “Put yourselves in their shoes” and “flip the coin” or, “Be compassionate” We love using them UNTIL WE are the WRONGED one. Listen, I have been there, the Wronged one, but I am happy to say “I can EVENTUALLY let it go!” AND that is the crucial word,EVENTUALLY. I think we have to let people go through their emotions. Things take time. Sure, I get pissed. I vent! But, that is what is good. I vent, I move on. I get it from my Dad. We don’t hold grudges or Hate. I may not LOVE and ADORE everyone but I do forgive, move on and I don’t let things seethe in my soul.
I feel sorry for those people that have trouble with forgiveness. I pity them. They must live sad,pathetic and lonely lives. How do you go through life thinking you are perfect and/ or worse, expecting others to always forgive you but refuse to offer it back? I understand being hurt and that forgiveness is hard but it can eat you alive if you don’t move on!
How do you EVENTUALLY move on?